God's Design for Our Trials - Calvary Baptist Church of Kalkaska

God’s Design for our Trials

Trials and challenges are an inescapable part of life. We all face them at different times, in various forms, and with varying degrees of intensity. But have you ever wondered why we go through trials? What if we told you that there is a divine design in our trials, that God uses these experiences to grow us and provide us with wisdom? In this blog post, we will explore how God uses trials in our lives and how He grants us wisdom within the context of those trials. We will draw from the Book of James, with a particular focus on James 1:1-8, and our memory verse will be Colossians 2:3.

God’s Purpose in Trials

James, the brother of Jesus and a leader in the early church, wrote a letter to the believers who were scattered due to persecution. In his opening statement, James highlights a fundamental truth about the purpose of trials in our lives:

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” (James 1:2-3, NIV)

These verses provide us with insight into God’s design for our trials. He allows us to face challenges so that our faith can be tested and refined. The process of going through trials produces perseverance, which is essential for our growth as Christians. 

This echoes the teaching of the Apostle Paul in Romans 5:3-4, ”Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” When we understand that God uses trials to refine us and mold us into the people He wants us to be, we can rejoice even in the midst of hardship.

The Gift of Wisdom

In the context of trials, James highlights the importance of wisdom. He assures us that God is generous in giving wisdom to those who ask for it:

“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” (James 1:5, NIV)

Wisdom is essential because it enables us to navigate the trials of life with discernment and understanding. Wisdom helps us see the bigger picture and recognize the hand of God at work in our lives. As our memory verse, Colossians 2:3, states, ”In Christ are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.”

When we turn to Jesus Christ, we discover a wealth of wisdom that empowers us to face trials with grace and strength.

The Importance of Faith

When asking for wisdom, James emphasizes the importance of faith. ”But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.” (James 1:6, NIV)

Faith is the key that unlocks the door to God’s wisdom. When we approach God with genuine belief and trust, He is pleased to grant us the wisdom we need to face our trials. Hebrews 11:6 reinforces this truth. ”And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.” In our trials, we must hold on to faith, trusting that God will provide us with the wisdom we need to persevere and grow.

Practical Steps for Embracing Trials and Seeking Wisdom

Recognize the divine purpose in trials

Instead of despairing in the face of trials, remind yourself that God is using these experiences to refine your faith and build perseverance. Reflect on scriptures like James 1:2-3 and Romans 5:3-4, which highlight the positive outcomes that can emerge from our trials.

In understanding God’s design for our trials, it is helpful to consider the process of refining precious metals like gold and silver. The refinement process involves subjecting the raw metal to intense heat to remove impurities or dross. The heat causes the dross to rise to the surface, allowing the refiner to skim it off, leaving behind a purer, more valuable metal. This analogy can shed light on how God uses trials as a refining process, removing the impurities in our lives to make us more like Christ.

When we face trials, it can feel as though we are being subjected to intense heat, experiencing pressure and discomfort. Yet, just as the refiner uses heat to purify precious metals, God uses the heat of our trials to bring the impurities, or sin, within us to the surface. This process exposes our weaknesses, our shortcomings, and our need for God’s grace.

As we endure trials, we are given the opportunity to grow in our faith, confront our sins, and become more reliant on God’s strength and grace. Just as the refiner removes the dross from gold and silver, God uses our trials to remove the “dross” from our lives—our sinful habits, our selfishness, and our pride—ultimately molding us into the image of Christ.

We should be encouraged to embrace the trials we face as opportunities for growth and transformation. By understanding that God is using our trials to purify us and draw us closer to Him, we can learn to find joy in the midst of our struggles, knowing that they serve a divine purpose.

Cultivating Joy in the Midst of Trials: Learning from Jesus’ Endurance

In the face of trials and tribulations, it can be difficult to maintain an attitude of joy. Yet, the Apostle James encourages us to embrace the idea of “considering it pure joy” when we encounter these challenges (James 1:2). This doesn’t mean that we should be happy about the trial itself. Instead, we can find joy in knowing that God is at work in our lives, refining and shaping us for His purposes. To fully grasp this concept, we can look to Jesus’ endurance of the cross as an example of finding joy amidst suffering.

The book of Hebrews tells us that Jesus “endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God” (Hebrews 12:2). This passage reveals that Jesus faced the ultimate trial—the crucifixion—by focusing on the joy that was set before Him. This joy was not in the suffering itself, but rather in the result of His sacrifice: the salvation of humanity and His ultimate exaltation at the right hand of the Father.

As we face our own trials, we can learn from Jesus’ example by focusing on the joy that comes from knowing God is using our hardships to refine and strengthen us. This perspective allows us to look beyond the immediate pain and discomfort and instead fix our eyes on the greater purpose behind our trials. We can take comfort in knowing that, just as Jesus’ suffering led to the redemption of humanity, our trials can result in our spiritual growth and a deeper relationship with God.

So how can we cultivate this attitude of joy in the midst of our trials?

  1. Focus on the bigger picture: Remind yourself that God is using your trials to shape you into the person He wants you to be. This perspective can help you see the trial as a tool for growth, rather than just an obstacle to overcome.
  2. Trust in God’s sovereignty: Believe that God is in control and that He has a plan for your life. Trusting in His sovereignty can bring peace and joy even in the midst of hardship.
  3. Reflect on past trials: Consider the ways that God has used previous trials to refine and strengthen you. By recognizing how God has worked in your life in the past, you can cultivate a sense of joy and anticipation for the growth that will come from your current trials.
  4. Seek God’s presence: Immerse yourself in prayer, scripture, and fellowship with other believers. By actively seeking God’s presence, you can draw strength and joy from your relationship with Him, even when facing trials.
  5. Practice gratitude: Make a conscious effort to express gratitude for the ways God has blessed you and for the growth that comes from your trials. Cultivating a heart of thankfulness can help you maintain an attitude of joy, even in the face of adversity.

By following Jesus’ example and cultivating an attitude of joy in the midst of our trials, we can experience the transformative power of God’s refining process. Just as Jesus endured the cross for the joy set before Him, we too can find joy in the midst of our trials, knowing that God is using them to mold us into the image of Christ.

Seeking Wisdom in the Midst of Trials

In the face of trials, it is essential to seek wisdom from God. The Apostle James reminds us of this invaluable truth in James 1:5, stating that God generously provides wisdom to those who ask. Through prayer and reliance on God, we can gain the discernment needed to navigate our trials and make wise decisions. A powerful example from Protestant church history of someone who exemplified this attitude is John Bunyan, the author of “The Pilgrim’s Progress.”

John Bunyan was a 17th-century English preacher and writer who faced numerous trials throughout his life. As a nonconformist minister, he refused to align with the established Church of England and instead preached in a way that he believed was consistent with the teachings of Scripture. This defiance led to his imprisonment on multiple occasions, ultimately totaling more than twelve years.

During his time in prison, Bunyan experienced separation from his family, including his blind daughter, for whom he had a particularly strong affection. He also endured the loss of his first wife and faced the constant threat of persecution. Yet, amidst these trials, Bunyan continually sought wisdom from God. He spent countless hours in prayer, Bible study, and writing, which ultimately resulted in the creation of “The Pilgrim’s Progress,” one of the most influential Christian allegories of all time.

Bunyan’s life exemplifies the importance of seeking wisdom from God in the face of adversity. By relying on God’s guidance and discernment, he was able to navigate his trials and make decisions that strengthened his faith and left a lasting impact on the Christian community.

Placing Our Trust in God’s Wisdom and Sovereignty

As we navigate the trials and tribulations of life, it is essential to trust in God’s wisdom and sovereignty. James 1:6 encourages us to ask for wisdom with faith, believing that God will provide the guidance we need. This trust is grounded in the understanding that our loving and all-powerful God is in control of our circumstances, and He is working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). The late theologian and pastor R.C. Sproul offers valuable insights on this topic, reminding us of the importance of trusting in God’s wisdom and sovereignty.

Sproul once said, “If there is one single molecule in this universe running around loose, totally free of God’s sovereignty, then we have no guarantee that a single promise of God will ever be fulfilled.” This powerful statement reminds us of the all-encompassing nature of God’s sovereignty. It is only because God is in control of every aspect of our lives that we can have confidence in His promises and trust that He will guide us through our trials.

Remember that God is all-knowing, all-powerful, and perfectly good. As we meditate on these attributes, we can find peace in the knowledge that our circumstances are under His control and that He has our best interests at heart.

As you face challenges, bring your concerns to God in prayer, asking Him to guide and direct you. Trusting in His wisdom and sovereignty means acknowledging that He knows what is best for you, even when the path ahead seems uncertain or difficult.

By trusting in God’s wisdom and sovereignty, we can navigate our trials with confidence and assurance. As R.C. Sproul’s words remind us, it is only because God is in control of every aspect of our lives that we can trust His promises and guidance. Let us lean into this truth and rest in the knowledge that our God is always at work for our good, even in the midst of our most challenging trials.

Maintain your focus on Jesus 

Be mindful that all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge are hidden in Christ (Colossians 2:3). In your pursuit of wisdom, let Jesus remain the center of your attention, for He is the wellspring of all wisdom, knowledge, and insight.

A poignant quote from the esteemed Christian author and theologian, C.S. Lewis, emphasizes the importance of concentrating on Jesus:

“Look for yourself, and you will find in the long run only hatred, loneliness, despair, rage, ruin, and decay. But look for Christ and you will find Him, and with Him everything else thrown in.” – C.S. Lewis

Lewis’s words serve as a reminder that by keeping our gaze fixed on Jesus, we can discover all that we need, encompassing wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. On the other hand, centering on ourselves leads to unfavorable consequences. By focusing on Christ, we can tap into the abundant treasures of wisdom and knowledge concealed within Him (Colossians 2:3).

Diving Deep into the Word of God

Charles Spurgeon, an influential Christian pastor and author, once said, “Visit many good books, but live in the Bible.” This quote encapsulates the essential role that the Bible plays in the life of a believer. As we navigate through trials and seek wisdom, it is crucial to immerse ourselves in the Word of God. While other good books can offer valuable insights, nothing compares to the divine wisdom found in the scriptures.

The Bible serves as a spiritual compass, guiding us through life’s challenges and uncertainties. It is a living document, constantly revealing new truths and insights as we study its pages. The Holy Spirit works through the scriptures, unveiling the profound wisdom contained within and illuminating our understanding.

To truly benefit from the wisdom of the Bible, it is vital to develop a consistent practice of studying and meditating on its truths. This involves not only reading the Word, but also contemplating its meaning, applying it to our lives, and allowing it to shape our thoughts, actions, and character.

As we study the scriptures, we begin to see God’s design for our trials more clearly. We gain a better understanding of His purposes, His promises, and His love for us. This deepens our faith and equips us with the wisdom needed to navigate life’s challenges.

In addition, immersing ourselves in the Word of God fosters a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ. As we draw closer to Him through the scriptures, we access the treasures of wisdom and knowledge that are hidden in Him (Colossians 2:3). This enables us to grow in our faith and become more Christ-like in our thoughts, words, and deeds.

So, as we face trials and seek wisdom from God, let us heed Spurgeon’s advice and “live in the Bible.” By doing so, we will find the divine guidance, strength, and encouragement needed to persevere through life’s challenges and grow in our faith.

Surround Yourself with Wise Counsel

The story of Job and his friends offers valuable lessons on the importance of surrounding ourselves with wise counsel. Job, a righteous man, faced unimaginable suffering and loss. His friends came to comfort him with the intention of offering support, but their limited understanding of God’s ways inadvertently added to his burden. By examining the story of Job, we can glean insights on the kind of counsel we should seek and the qualities we should look for in those who advise us.

  1. Seek empathy and understanding: Job’s friends initially joined him in mourning, demonstrating empathy and understanding. However, as they began to assume that his suffering was a direct result of some sin or wrongdoing on his part, their empathy waned. When seeking counsel, look for fellow believers who are compassionate, empathetic, and understanding of your situation.
  2. Focus on God’s grace and sovereignty: Job’s friends had a limited understanding of God’s ways, believing that He rewards the righteous and punishes the wicked in a straightforward manner. They failed to recognize the sovereignty of God and the fact that sometimes trials occur for reasons beyond our comprehension, including our growth and ultimate joy. Surround yourself with individuals who acknowledge and trust in God’s wisdom and plan, even in the midst of trials.
  3. Avoid judgment and self-righteousness: While Job’s friends were well-meaning, their assumptions led them to be judgmental. When seeking wise counsel, avoid those who are quick to judge or act self-righteous. Instead, look for individuals who exhibit humility and a willingness to listen before offering advice.
  4. Look for counsel grounded in the totality of scripture: The advice of Job’s friends, although containing some biblical elements, was not grounded in the full truth of God’s Word. Their limited understanding led them to make assumptions that were not reflective of the whole counsel of God. Surround yourself with fellow believers who turn to the Bible for guidance and support, ensuring that their counsel aligns with the entirety of God’s Word.
  5. Value patience and persistence in prayer: Job’s friends, despite their well-meaning intentions, did not demonstrate a willingness to patiently seek God’s wisdom through prayer. Seek out those who are willing to pray with you and for you, patiently waiting on God’s guidance and direction.

The story of Job and his friends serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of surrounding ourselves with wise counsel. Seek guidance and support from fellow believers who exhibit wisdom, godly character, and a reliance on the totality of God’s Word. By doing so, we can grow in wisdom and navigate our trials with greater discernment and faith, as Proverbs 13:20 reminds us: “He who walks with the wise grows wise.”


God’s design for our trials is not to harm us or cause us unnecessary suffering. Instead, He uses these experiences to refine our faith, build perseverance, and ultimately, mold us into the image of Christ. As we navigate the trials of life, let us remember to seek wisdom from God, who generously provides it to those who ask in faith. By trusting in God’s wisdom and embracing the divine purpose of our trials, we can experience spiritual growth and maturity, becoming more like Christ in the process.

Sermon & Sandwiches

It’s valuable to discuss a sermon after the fact because it allows both partners to deepen their understanding, gain new insights, and apply the teachings to their daily lives. Engaging in such conversations can also strengthen the relationship between husband and wife, as they grow together in their faith. Here are some conversation starters to get the discussion going:

  1. What part of the sermon on trials and God’s purpose in them resonated with you the most? Why do you think that aspect stood out to you?
  2. Have you experienced a trial in your life that ultimately led to personal growth and a deeper relationship with God? Share your story and reflect on how it changed you.
  3. In what ways can we, as a couple, learn to find joy in the midst of our trials, following Jesus’ example of enduring the cross for the joy set before Him?
  4. How can we support each other in seeking wisdom from God during challenging times? Are there any specific prayers or practices we can adopt together?
  5. How has reading and meditating on the Bible helped you navigate through difficult times in your life? Can you share any specific verses that have been particularly meaningful to you?
  6. Discuss the importance of surrounding ourselves with wise counsel. How can we ensure that we are seeking advice from those who truly understand and follow God’s ways?
  7. As a couple, how can we maintain our focus on Jesus and trust in God’s sovereignty, especially when we face trials together? What steps can we take to keep our faith strong during such times?

The Daily Devotion

Monday: Read James 1:2-4 and Romans 5:3-5. Reflect on how these passages encourage believers to face trials with perseverance, knowing that God is using them to build character and spiritual growth. Write down your thoughts and any personal experiences that relate to these verses.

Tuesday: Read Hebrews 12:1-3. Meditate on the example of Jesus, who endured suffering for the joy set before Him. Consider how this perspective can help you find joy in your own trials. Write a prayer asking God for the strength to endure hardships with grace and a joyful spirit.

Wednesday: Read Proverbs 3:5-6 and James 1:5. Focus on the importance of seeking God’s wisdom and guidance in times of trial. Make a list of three ways you can apply these verses in your life, especially during difficult moments.

Thursday: Read Psalm 34:17-18 and 2 Corinthians 1:3-4. Reflect on God’s promise to be near to those who are brokenhearted and to comfort those who are suffering. Write a letter to a friend or family member who is going through a difficult time, sharing these verses and offering your support and encouragement.

Friday: Read 1 Peter 4:12-13 and Romans 8:28. Consider how suffering can ultimately lead to God’s glory and our good. Write a journal entry about a challenging experience you’ve faced and how you can see God’s hand at work in it, even if it was difficult to see at the time.

Kid’s Connection

Helping children understand the essential truths about trials and suffering is an important part of their spiritual growth. This discussion guide will provide parents with age-appropriate questions and activities to explain these concepts in a way that is easy for kids to comprehend.

  1. Trials are a part of life:
  2. Begin by explaining that everyone experiences difficult times, and it’s normal to feel sad or upset during these moments. Share a personal story or a Bible story that highlights a time of trial, such as Daniel in the lion’s den or Jonah in the belly of the fish.
  • Questions:
    • Can you think of a time when you faced something difficult? How did you feel?
    • What did you learn from that experience?
  • Activity:
  • Create a simple obstacle course in your living room or backyard. Guide your child through the course, helping them overcome each obstacle. Afterward, discuss how trials can make us stronger and more resilient.
  1. God is with us during trials:
  2. Explain that God is always with us, even during the toughest moments. He cares for us and provides the strength we need to face our challenges.
  • Questions:
    • Have you ever felt God’s presence during a difficult time? How did that make you feel?
    • How can we remember that God is with us during tough times?
  • Activity:
  • Create a “God is with me” jar. Have your child decorate an empty jar and fill it with small objects, such as marbles or beads, each representing a time when they felt God’s presence during a trial. Whenever they need a reminder, they can look at the jar and remember that God is always with them.
  1. Trials can help us grow:
  2. Discuss how difficult experiences can teach us important lessons and help us grow closer to God. Share examples from your own life or biblical stories that demonstrate growth through trials, such as Joseph’s experiences in Egypt.
  • Questions:
    • Can you think of a time when you learned something important from a difficult situation?
    • How can we use tough times to grow closer to God?
  • Activity:
  • Create a “growth tree” by drawing or painting a tree on a large piece of paper. Have your child write or draw lessons they’ve learned from difficult experiences on paper leaves. Attach the leaves to the tree as a visual reminder of the growth that can come from trials.


Reiterate the importance of embracing trials with faith and perseverance, knowing that God is always with us and using these experiences for our growth. Encourage your child to pray for strength and guidance during difficult times and to remember the lessons they’ve learned from past challenges.